A Memorial For Debra

On behalf of the Ferreira family,
we would like to thank our family and friends for all you
love, support and prayers.

We would like to share a day
to remember our very much loved

daughter, sister, aunt and friend
with all of her loved ones.

A service will be held at:
St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church
14085 Peyton Dr., Chino Hills, CA 91709
On Saturday, Septemer 19, 2009 at 11:00 a.m.

Immediately following the service per Debra's request
she asked that we all come together to celebrate
all the great times we have shared with her.
Her wish was to be able to look down on us on this day
to see us laugh and smile about the good times we have shared together.

The celebration picnic will be held at
Heritage Park
4210 Chino Ave.
Chino, CA 91710

We will be coordinating a menu if everyone will contribute to.
Please contact Michelle Fuentes at (626) 862-7217
We ask that every family bring an EZ up and chairs.
We look forward to celebrating our traditional
day at the park filled with
food, family, friends and games as
Debra has always enjoyed.

A monetary gift in lieu of flowers on behalf of
Debra Ferreira would be very much appreciated.
Casual Attire

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God saw our extraordinary woman
"Debra Lynn Ferreira"
Getting tired and a cure were not to be.
On August 26, 2009
He put his arms around her and whispered
"Come To Me".
Although we all could not bear to lose her
We know that she is in a peaceful place.
We know that Debra's courage and strength
Is something we all admire.
We have learned what the true meaning of an
"Extraordinary Woman"
Truly means.

Deb ...In the Arms of Angels Now

Debbie passed away on Wednesday night at 8:17pm surrounded by her family and a couple of friends. She had been in great pain that day and of course a long time before that, but passed away peacefully "with a smile on her face" they said. She fought this fight so long and so hard and felt that on Wednesday morning, she was ready to be in the hands of her precious Lord.

Please pray for the entire Ferreira Family and extended family and friends who miss her so very much. Gene and Tina (Mom and Dad) appreciate all of the heartfelt prayers and love you have shown Deb during her hards times and all through her life. Please pray that we would all be inspired by Deb's genuine courage fighting so hard and so long.

There is a tentative date of September 19th, Saturday for a "Celebration of her Life". Her sister Michelle will keep us informed and I will update here. Deb wanted no mourning for her passing, but rather a happiness and celebration of a Mass on Saturday at the church followed by a lot of gathering and kids running around at a park nearby.

Written by Lisa Wills (on behalf of the Ferreira Family) ... a friend for over 35 years to sweet Deb.

Debs update

As my last post stated we had an appointment on Thursday June 4, 2009. As a result she had an infection and the doctor felt it was necessary to admit her to clear the infection. As of today the infection has been cleared and she is scheduled to be released from the hospital tomorrow. She will continue to do her regular scheduled appointments for dialysis and following all necessary doctor appointments. I thank you for all your prayers and support and ask that you continue to pray for my sister which I feel helps make her strong. I also wanted to inform you to look forward to our future fundraisers to come. I will be posting the events on this blog and you will also receive information in the mail.


Thank you
Michelle

Deb's update!

I just wanted to update everyone as to where Deb is right now with her treatments. She has not had Chemo since the seizures. Her doctor has requested that she have a CT scan last week and tomorrow we meet with her doctor for the results. Hopefully good news. She is scheduled for chemo tomorrow and she is still having dialysis every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. She now has a kidney and a Neurologist specialist following her treatment as well. She has a very busy schedule and with all your prayers and support my sister will beat this battle.


Thank you and I love you all!

Michelle

Hair West Salon Fundraiser

Here are some recent photos of the last fundraiser for Deb hosted by Shelly at her salon " Hair West Salon". It was a very wonderful day. Everyone who participated in this event did a fabulous job. My sister truly enjoyed the day and was so happy to see everyone. Debbie and our family would like to thank you for all the hard work and for everyone that came out to participated in this event. We truly appreciate everything that each and everyone of you do. We love you and thank you!

Michelle

Deb's update!

I know that there are so many of you concerned about my sister that call or don't call because you don't want to bother. So, I would like to keep y0u all updated. On April 27th Deb was rushed to the hospital for those of you that may or may not know she had 2 seizures. She was released from the hospital on Saturday and is home now. She is doing fine and the test results came back with no explanation as to why she had those seizures. She is sill doing dialysis 3 times a week and we have held off on her kemo until she meets with her cancer doctor at USC hospital on May 14th. She has an appetite which is good and she is gradually eating but she is still being fed by her port with the TPN fluid every night. Today was a good day for her she was in the yard helping my mom and I pot some flowers, which I think she really enjoyed. She was able to get some fresh air and her hands a little dirty. Today Deb also mentioned that she would like to attend Shelly's fundraiser cutathon on May 17th and get her hair trimmed. So for anyone attending we hope to see you there. I will continue to keep you all updated on the prognosis of her appointment on May 14Th. Thank you again for all your prayers and kind thoughts. We love you all.

Love,

Michelle

What a day of Celebration!

I just wanted to post a huge thank you to each and everyone of you that attended, donated and help put this beautiful luncheon together on April 26th for my sister. It was such a wonderful day. I think everyone that attended can truly say it was a day filled with love, happiness and motivation that my sister will overcome this battle. All the prayers and love I felt in the room touched my heart and I would like to thank you all. I will post the pictures from this day once I have received them so everyone can remember and enjoy that wonderful day.


Love,
Michelle

Mona Vie ... Fundraiser Product!

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50 percent of my 2008 and 2009 team commissions are gifted to my cousin Deb

Julia Leung
916 765 8311
jrleung@roadrunner.com

An Easter Celebration To Always Remember!

Easter Celebration 2009

I just wanted to thank everyone in attendance for our Easter celebration.  It was by far the best Easter yet.  We had over 100 people attend and everyone of you made a huge difference in our family celebration and I thank you for all your help and participation.  I know that Deb enjoyed her day to the fullest.  The food and deserts were wonderful.  Everyone participated in all the games and had such a great time, it shows in the pictures below.  Seeing family and friends together makes days like these worth everything in the world.  So I thank you again for making this such a special day for my sister!  We love you all!

AN AFTERNOON OF CELEBRATION...

AN AFTERNOON OF CELEBRATION...

Please join us for an afternoon of celebration on Sunday, April 26, 2009. We will be reunited with the family and friends of Debra Ferreira to support her with her on going battle.  Lunch will be served $50 per person.  There will be a special guess performing an extraordinary woman battling this disease.  Please don't miss out on this special event.  We will be video -taping this event as a gift for Debra so she can experience the support and love from each and everyone of you. 

Location:

Agostinos Ristorante

34700 Pacific Coast Highway Ste 100

Capistrano Beach, Ca 

Cocktails - 1:00pm

Lunch will be served - 3:00pm

Microphone and video Montage: 4:30pm

Please RSVP with Renee Ferreira @ 909-234-0235

  

2009 Easter Celebration Invitation

Hello,

We would like to extend our invite to our annual Easter picnic celebration for this year. We feel it would be a great idea to celebrate this Easter with each and every one of our family and friends and share this special holiday together. This is one of Debra's favorite times of year that we share together will friends and family and we know she would enjoy knowing that we were all together to celebrate this day. As you may know Debra is home now and we are praying that she can join us for this celebration. I know she would like to take this opportunity to see and thank you for your prays and kind thoughts. We are planning to film this day so she can always remember and share this special day with her loved ones. Debra and I have been organizing our Easter picnic for the past 10 years and have had the attendance grown over the years. I would like to still organize this celebration and make it one of our most memorable celebrations for her and everyone. If you are able to attend please RSVP with me the number of attendance. Please feel free to extend this invitation to your friends and family everyone is welcome. We ask that each family attending bring a dish for our potluck buffet table (please do not worry about the number of attendance we always have more than enough), each family will also need to bring the following:
blankets and chairs

EZ up tents if you have one

ice chest with drinks to share

a dozen stuffed eggs per child attending(for an Easter egg hunt)

jackets and sweaters it may get windy

My family will be in charge of tables, paper goods, all Easter games and relays, prizes and Easter treats. We will have our celebration at Grand Avenue Park in Chino Hills, Ca at 12:00pm. I hope you can join us.

Sincerely,

Will & Michelle Fuentes

626-862-7217 cell

909-591-9962 home

To Donate ...

Lisa Wills here ... we are adding a Paypal / Donate button as soon as I have a free moment as well as where to send donations. Keep checking back.

Isn't is wonderful Deb is home!

Love,
Lisa

03/22/09 Good News Deb's Home!!

Yes, you heard correctly Deb is home!! She came home on Tuesday and with getting her situated and making sure we know exactly what we need to do for her we have been very busy. I think we have everything under control now and she is doing great. She goes to dialysis every Mon, Wed and Fri from 10am to 2pm. She feeds through her port every night from about 8pm to 9am the next day, which has been working. She takes some medication throughout the day and she asks for her pain meds seldom, which is wonderful. We love having her home and seeing her improve everyday is a dream come true. The kids love to see their auntie Debbie and I think her being home is helping her get much stronger. She walks around the house for exercises and she even fold my laundry. She sits outside in the patio for fresh air and likes to sit in the living room to watch TV with us all. So, overall Deb is doing great. Her next doctor visit is this Thursday and her next kemo treatment is April 13th. If anyone would like to talk to her please feel free to call her at my home 909-591-9962.

On behalf of my family I would like to say thank you very much for all the kind and generous donations. Everyday we get the envelops and I can't tell you enough how much it truly means to us all. My sisters recovery is a blessing from each and everyone of you and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. We love you all and thank you.

Love,

Michelle Ferreira-Fuentes

Going back to Denver ....

Well, it has been so fantastic catching up with all of the precious people I adore, but I leave today to go back to my home in Denver. I arrived 2 weeks ago with my 14 yr. old Brandon and my newly adopted daughter Tigist (2) and spend some wonderful time with Deb with several visits. I didn't know she'd want visitors at all when I flew here, but I am so glad to see she is in fact stronger than when I came. Don't let up however, on your prayers and love for her as her body is definitely challenging her from all angles. She is so eager to go home where her spirits will soar even higher, so as slow as the progress seems, the doctors are trying to make sure she is strong enough to do that.

I am really pleased with everyone who is supporting Debbie and has visited her. She is bored stiff and very much wants to get out of the hospital. She has even taken to "sketching" her hairbrush, which we agreed right there in the hospital room proof how bored she really is. I am so proud of our group of High School friends who continue to place a high value on our unique relationships we have had for well over 30 years. Deb has played a crucial role in keeping us all together for many years, but we have all played a vital role and agree that our group of friends is fabulous and after all these years ... still so handsome and gorgeous ... I must say!

I've been staying at Deb's house most of this time where Steve Irigoyen has been living as well. So how special was this to spend time with him and his son, Tristan as well. Tristan and my son Brandon got along very well and sad to leave each other. Staying at Deb's was special to me as it made me feel closer to her in some way during this trying time.

Deb, here are some pics of some of our favorite people. Thank you for letting me and the kids bombard your gorgeous home ...



Shere', Malcom, Lana (her adopted daughter from Vietnam) and my adopted daughter, Tigist



We visit Shere's church in Irvine, Mariners Church, where they were having an International Outreach in the courtyard. This is Tigist with the Kenya girls.



Gina met us there where we caught up with each other.



Steve and Tigist at Deb's house. She fell immediately in love with him and now calls him Uncle Steve.



Brandon is fixed on exotic cars lately, so while in Beverly Hills, we stopped at this dealership where we saw this amazing car ... check out how much they are "offering" it at...



Bugatti ... $2.4 million only



Brandon dreaming



Shelly's brother Craig who is a life time racer of motorbikes and cars, is now coaching his 8 year old son Skyler in



Skylar's quarter track race-car



Reylene and Tigist. Please keep Reylene in your prayers too as she is struggling with kidney failure for the 2nd time in her life. You would never know it seeing her here...







Shelly and Tigist



Gina Johnston, Shelly and Tigist



Amber, (Reylene's daughter) MaryHelen, Lisa, Steve, Shelly, Tigist, Reylene, JoLinda & Gina. We got together at Deb's to kind of "reflect" and think of her ... weird being there having a gathering at her home w/o her???



Our friend Mike Dugan and Tigist met up at Bob's Big Boy in Burbank.



Tigist loves kisses and showing affection






I'll look forward to keeping up with all that is going on with Deb's progress from her family and the fundraising efforts being organized by her family and friends as well. You may not be able to be as near Deb or see her as much as you like due to a busy schedule or living far like me, but you can support her by choosing a fundraiser to get involved with or donating straight from this blog with the Pay Pal button on the right side bar.

Love and hugs,

Lisa (Vopat) Wills

3/12/09 Debra's update

Hello everyone, let me start off with saying that we, our family truly do appreciate all that each and everyone of you have done for Debra. With all the prayers and kind gestures we could not do this alone so thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

Now for the good news...Debra is doing great. For those of you that have seen her you will also agree that she looks strong and is getting back to her normal self. She still has a battle ahead of her but she is getting strong. She is still under going dialysis pretty much on a daily basis. She informed us today that they will not be placing the feeding tubs since she has been having some fevers and blood pressure has been dropping to avoid any complications or infections.

We are still unsure of the exact plan the doctors have in store for her as far as feeding, but she will be undergoing chemo treatment very soon. I will be keeping you all informed here regularly.

Thank you

Michelle

Welcome Everybody ...

Hello everyone,


Lisa Wills here. For those high school folks, formerly Lisa Vopat. We will be keeping this blog updated for you all on Deb's health as well as the fundraising efforts on behalf of her family and friends. Please comment under any or all whosts and let us know if there is anything we can add or expand on. And Deb will be seeing this and your comments, so please let her know you are thinking of her and praying for her.

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Love and hugs to all of you,
Lisa